I am writing this “guideline” as my 18 year old self. I’ve come to see there are standards I would hope to find in a someone, in order to feel a proper satisfaction. 

So…this is that list.

• First and Formost: Intellectual connection. You must be a person where there are no one sided conversations. I talk to myself all day, I don’t need a mannequin to have a conversation with. 

• Secondly, Mutually shared interest. You might be hot as shit, but that doesn’t help at all when we are on two different planets. 

• Thirdly, an appreciation for the more subtle things. I am someone that is a fan of things off the norm, and I have a sense of a bigger reality then my own. I want someone that can see outside of their small bubble. 

• Fourth, an understanding or comprehension that everything is not as it seems. Someone willingly to be open in debates and conversations, not arguments. 

Everything else is just a footnote. As a avid seeker in the encompassing beauty of everything; predetermined and defined ideas mean jack shit to me. Not saying I’ll settle for the bride of Frankenstein, but I’m not looking for 12.5’s. A woman of natural beauty, confident in who she is as person is more attractive to me then any insecure skeletal super model. 

So, whoever reads and feels they can meet these, get at me.